Wednesday, January 21, 2015

San Diego

I worked on Monday MLK day so I get an alternate day off. 

On Friday we are going to go to San Diego overnight.  

It is so hard for me to go back to San Diego - so many memories - good and bad.

I have lost touch with almost all my San Diego friends - except Mage and Kim.

We will have breakfast with Mage and George - I'm a bit nervous because I haven't seen them in 24 years.  What will they think of me?  Will it be awkward or can we pick up and move forward?  I hope so.

A few of my San Diego friends left San Diego - my friend Marcy moved to Texas - we keep in touch via email, phone calls and FB.  And Don moved to Seattle and now is gone as well - I hope he and Gene are having a high old time together!

I wonder what happened to Carla and Joyce?  What are they doing now?

San Diego - sometimes I wish I could move back but it just wouldn't be the same.  San Diego was Gene's town.

We moved to San Diego in 1980 so I could go to SDSU.  We lived in a dumpy 4-plex because the rent was cheap and it was close to SDSU so I could walk to class.  We stayed after I graduated because it was cheap and I worked at SDSU and could now walk to work.  I stayed after Gene died but then got evicted because the owners torn it down and built a fancy apartment building on the land.

We had good times in San Diego - visiting Point Loma, the tidepools, the navy ships, Mission Bay, Ocean Beach, Mission Beach, Balboa Park, SD Zoo (we had memberships) & Wild Animal Park, dinners with friends, Don's studio....and so much more. 

We had bad times in San Diego -- the worst was Gene dying.

I met Dennis in San  Diego and a new chapter started but San Diego is always going to be bittersweet for me.

1 comment:

  1. For me too. But how wonderful we have reconnected. :)

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